Carrie had never said Jess' name when they were together intimately because it made her cringe a little, too. In her case it was because he found it hard to think of the woman without a flare of anger. Even though it was in her best interests to have them in conflict, she hated how her reactions hurt him. "But she'd know him, so if he talked to her a couple times but didn't say to have you call, would she still mention it?" That seemed unlikely.